Well with three kids I won't say have a couple while your away, you'll have to be content with coca cola lol. Your hubby sounds like a lot of people, if it can be labelled they're happy, because the common thought is autism is a medical/organic problem, as soon as the words behavioural problems come out, they think it's a slight on them, (read him !) And their (his) parenting, so when the report comes, make a photocopy before he sees it, then highlight all the bits that say it's NOT her fault, the pregnancy and labour for example, it might help him be a little more understanding if he can see in black and white, from a DOCTOR, that it's not just her being naughty, that this is something she can't help, but can be helped with.