It's very easy to get "wrapped around the axle" in email and forums. I think everyone on both sides was trying to help. Everyone just got focused on growling vs. not growling as was, "talking at each other, rather than to one another".
I think everyone would agree there should be an environment where the pup feels comfortable and does not need to growl, especially at its owner over resources such as food, toys, water, and places in the house. Likewise I think everyone would agree that they'd want their pup to be able to communicate when it is in fear or feels threatened.
Simply put, it's okay to growl if necessary, but not okay to growl/show aggression often over things that pups shouldn't growl at. I believe no one wants a dog that bites right away for no "appropriate reason".
This is a great forum and everyone seems to want to help everyone out. It was just a case of mis-communication. I am glad it was resolved so well.
Jason