It has been a couple of days and he has not given me an answer. I just wish he would realize how bad Vader is hurting. I am really starting to believe the worst and that he does not care.
On a good note Vader did act normal for a little while last night. After I had come home from work and taken all of them potty, Vader laid in my lap and snuggled. He had not done this after the "daddy" person walked out. I still hurt for the big guy. The reds don't seem to miss him at all so my concern in Vader. I just wish he would get his head out of his butt and help me out.