my boyfriend and myself are like that. he doesn't train the way i do and in consequence Luka doesn't listen to him at all. We decided to get Luka together but it had wound up where he has Knox and i have Luka.
Really, i've tried discussing it with him more than once with no change. I just don't bother anymore, Luka minds me and that's all that matters.
It does bother me sometimes that I'm the one who gets up in the mornings with them, i'm the one who walks them, the one who takes them places, etc. but what's the point in arguing? lol i think a lot of times people are in this position.