BingBlaze n Skyla Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 huskies are fab for wiping away the tears and making us feel better have a FAB time with your mum hun xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lebe03 Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 IMO I would say that you should go and see your mum with your furbabies and your partner can do whatever he wants to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valkyries Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 wow the more i read the more i'm sure you should be with your mum, as for your partner hun i have a good feeling you can do alot better than him. go enjoy and leave him to sort himself out xxxxxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val (Zebedee) Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 I could partly understand if it was his family he wanted to go & see, but I'd have said you would have to compromise .... but to go & party with mates (that he can do any weekend) and happily leave your mum on her own, what a heartless idiot! And your first Christmas back home, too. Sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do & a short sharp shock about who is important in life and you have a decision to make about him. Have you been with him long? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShadowandNikittasMum Posted December 18, 2010 Author Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 Few months -sigh- His parents love me we was gonna spend chinese new year in china with them but I'm not sure if we're gonna last that long. He's agreed to come with me on xmas day (after a huge argument) but I don't want him there but my mum does,, she adores him if she only knew how much of a fight he put up. It's still not a 100% of him coming anyway, he's always changing his mind and I've told him I'm spending atleast xmas day with my mum and we can do whatever any other time HOWEVER because of the fight I've told him I'm not GOING ANYWHERE without my furbabies so if we go anywhere atleast I'll be happy cause I have them (: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyCouture Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 I'd just go to your moms, if he loves you he'll understand. If he doesn't you won't be wasting your time with him anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val (Zebedee) Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 sounds like you've made the right decision, just be firm & don't back down or he'll think he can throw a hissy fit & you will come round to what he wants ... most importantly, enjoy Christmas Day with your Mum, whether he goes or not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RJHale Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 i have read all this and i second your idea of leaving him and moving in with your mum. other than that i dont know what to say that wouldn't involve a painful way of getting dead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carriebyrne Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 i say dump the dope as he sounds very insensitive and bloody selfish, you will always be glad that you decided to go to your mums, have a lovely time there and remember never let a guy come between you and your mum or your dogs lol merry christmas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susan Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 What an ass!! looks like he is showing his true colours!! dont be put down by this guy , I see it happen far toooooooooooooo often where women end up as hermits just to please there man. go to your mums x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 oh hun...so sorry your going through this so close to xmas, i think you've made the right decision spending xmas with your mum though good luck and lots of pawhugs xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted December 18, 2010 Report Share Posted December 18, 2010 Imo ditch the loser. he sounds heartless and cruel. take ur furbabies and leave, if hes trying to control u now he always will. trust me, ive been there. get out now b4 it gets worse. hugs. xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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