Sarah Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 Posting this in the steam room so Koda's previous owner doesn't see. She's been messaging me on facebook and looking at the pics i've put up of Koda. I'm worried she's going to want to take him back I've fallen for him and those that went to camp who met him I hope can see just how well he got on with my boys and other dogs. Aww sarah I really miss him :'-( !!!! I thought I was handlin it ok but for some reason it has just overwhelmed me! Can u take him park so I can see him? He prob doesn't miss me but I do him an I want to see him. I know I've give him u now an really I shouldn't ask but please.... not wantin u to go out the way but if u go somewhere near urs to walk them an I could just join for ten mins to see him that would be great. Thanks for lookin after him an givin him a good home I really miss my boy! Feel like a piece of my heart as left with him gutted I couldn't look after him! It's like I've give my baby up for adoption!! Xxx My reply: awww *hugs* course we can meet up, will see how the weather is over next day or so and arrange something - he's had such a fab wkend and is totally passed out now lol but yh deffo arrange something hun xxxx Her reply: I really miss him :'-( loads! It's only just really sank in! Feel like I just give him away an not bothered with him I know he happy but I stil miss him an need a cuddle an I know I gave him u like I said an I don't want u or marc to go out ur way just sayin I'd apreciate it. He's so adorable! Lovable! He's an amazin dog an he's my baby! I miss him so much! Feel like I've gave my child up for adoption! It's weird how it feels xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 no way can she take him back now! we wont let her. Hes a lovely boy and loved everyone and everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted October 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 she can't legally get him back can she? I've applied to get his chip details put to my name and also applied to the KC to get him registered to me but nothing has come back through from either yet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 she can't legally get him back can she? I've applied to get his chip details put to my name and also applied to the KC to get him registered to me but nothing has come back through from either yet not sure, police wouldnt get involved. shed either have to go through courts or steal him or get those pet detectives Id think. unless shes got loads of money she cant do that. Ok I googled and found answers on the basis that if it wasnt a trial run then she has legally surrendered the dog to you and you are under no obligation whatsoever to give it back. just stand your ground. The reasons she gave him up cant have dissappeared so she has to deal with it. (sorry if I sound evil) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewSibeMom Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 MY suggestion is if she DOES try something, keep those emails! It CLEARLY states that SHE gave him to you, so if she DOES try anything, she at least cant use the 'Sarah stole him out of my yard' bs or that you 'bullied her' into giving you her dog. Keep EVERYTHING, even something minor, all posts she makes, take screen shots and keep them in a file on your computer, just in case...Even if you end up deleting the file later, for right now, keep it in the (hopefully) unlikely event she tries to take him back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted October 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 thanks Lou x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted October 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 MY suggestion is if she DOES try something, keep those emails! It CLEARLY states that SHE gave him to you, so if she DOES try anything, she at least cant use the 'Sarah stole him out of my yard' bs or that you 'bullied her' into giving you her dog. Keep EVERYTHING, even something minor, all posts she makes, take screen shots and keep them in a file on your computer, just in case...Even if you end up deleting the file later, for right now, keep it in the (hopefully) unlikely event she tries to take him back. defo a good idea, thank you xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 thanks Lou x anytime babes. xx What Krista says is good tho. xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sid_Wolf Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 Hun dont worry about it, no she has no grounds to stand on if she decides she wants him back AFAIK I thought the same with Grey, but its natural to feel the way she does, imagine if it where the other way around Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tan J P Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 i has similar experience with one of mine i turned round and said ''i hope thats not a round about way of asking for (X) back........you will have a fight on your hands if thats the case they are not toys to pick up and put down when you feel like it'' They never replied :eek: Also,i wouldn't be quite so keen to take him to meet her just yet,i'd leave it a good few wks she's obviously upset and you just never know what she may do(i'm always very suspicious) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewSibeMom Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 No worries Sarah, it just irritates me that in this day and age, we have to do this kind of crap to protect ourselves and our rights as pet owners! A lot of people in my life would tell you I'm paranoid, but I prefer to think of myself as prepared. I'll tell ya what, legally, I have NEVER been left 'high and dry', by my own accord. I hope to goodness you NEVER need to use that file, but just in case, keeping it for a year or two (in the US it CAN take that long to get a case seen in court) just to be on the safe side is a good idea. *Hugs* I'm so sorry you are going through this...I'm currently doing the same with Blaze...the breeder made me very nervous telling me I was being cruel by removing his teeth, so in case anything came out of my 'cruelty' I have all the documentation to cover my a$$ and keep MY baby! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 I agree with Tan, dont meet her it can potentially mess Koda up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dunc Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 STOPPPPP.......... You reading to much into this IMO she not asking for him back she just telling you how much she misses him which is not bad now is it ? Go along let her see him I know if I'd done this I would want to see them and keep in touch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 STOPPPPP.......... You reading to much into this IMO she not asking for him back she just telling you how much she misses him which is not bad now is it ? Go along let her see him I know if I'd done this I would want to see them and keep in touch. not yet its too soon for Koda. Hes settling and it can set him back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dunc Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 not yet its too soon for Koda. Hes settling and it can set him back. You might be right Louise don't think you are but might be If you think same @sarah tell her that its to soon and reason why be nice if you need backup sort it for when I can be there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MollynDiesel Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 Isnt this the same kinda thing that was on 'pet detectives' a few weeks ago? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted October 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 yh am worried about it knocking him back again - crate training is gong well and i don't want him to get confused Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rynne Allison Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 Call me paranoid, but I would be wary of meeting up with her, for all your sakes. IMO it just fans the flames; be polite and friendly, but keep your distance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewSibeMom Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 I agree with Louise...For one, I do understand how painful it can be to have to give up a dog, but I think KODA should be the MOST IMPORTANT THING INVOLVED IN THIS WHOLE THING!!!! He is settling in with Sarah's loving family, in my opinion LET THE DOG BE. The past owner felt the need to give him up, which was doing something right by Koda, she should continue to do right by Koda and leave him be where he is happy. Maybe in a month or two after he is fully blended into Sarah's pack and lifestyle, maybe THEN something could be arranged but by doing it so soon Koda will be confused as to who 'Mommy' is and who he should go to, and if he had any sort of 'abandonment feelings' when his owner left the first time, those wounds will reopen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 You might be right Louise don't think you are but might be If you think same @sarah tell her that its to soon and reason why be nice if you need backup sort it for when I can be there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marley & Lumikkis Mummy Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 I agree I dont think it would do any good right now to meet up. Koda is still settling in and doesnt need confusion x Dont worry hun we wont let him be taken away Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lebe03 Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 I think you should postpone meeting up with her for at least a few weeks as it may also set her back by seeing him again. Send pictures / video of him by all means but I'd say it's too early for a face to face meet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valkyries Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 your letting your mind run away with you hun, but deff think it's to soon for him to see her xxxxxxxxx an hey if need be we can all hide him for months lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted October 11, 2011 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 your letting your mind run away with you hun, but deff think it's to soon for him to see her xxxxxxxxx an hey if need be we can all hide him for months lol lol if you lot hid him i'd never see him again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 lol if you lot hid him i'd never see him again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.