HuskyMom09 Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 (edited) I'm about to burst, seriously!!! Work has been a major source of stress, to levels I can't even begin to describe! On top of the work stress issue for the past week my neighbor has been obsessing over our shared property line. Which at first was no big deal, a little odd sure but no big deal, the original property markers are in the ground from when the land was divided...but yesterday I come home to find that he and his dad had moved the property markers! I decided to go see if there was an issue or anything that needed to be discussed, since these are neighbors that in the 2 years they have lived here have not had more than 1 conversation with us, and was verbally abused and threatened. I ended up calling my husband who came home from a job to see if he could talk to them but was given the same treatment. I ended up calling the Sheriff's Office and having a deputy come out to cool them off. For the life of me I cannot figure out where this animosity is coming from!!! This is nuts and has me scared! Not sure how much more I can take right now... Edited June 14, 2012 by HuskyMom09 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 hope things get better! that's crazy about your job! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Povodny Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 I obviously don't know anything about your system of leave application at work. But do you get any written conformation of the days you've been granted? I know it seems a daft question as you'd probably have said if you did. But as you're so stressed you may have over looked it. As for your neighbours, can you contact your mortgage provider, they will have a copy of your property boundaries. About 30 yrs ago when I was first married and we had our first house, because it was a new build there was an issue about garden boundaries. We had to get a copy of the original plans from our mortgage lender to resolve it. Put the kettle on an make a brew, then at the first opportunity take the fur kids out for a good walk and let the fresh air help soothe your soul. Hope things improve soon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aronoiiel Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 not to much I can say really except we all love you and hope that things will take a better turn for you soon. It's always dreary and cloudy before the sunny weekends pop around the corner keep your chin up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moonstar Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 whot you need is a script for self medication can be taken anytime first lock yourself in bathroom then start treatment hot bubble bath chocolate in left hand (cals dont count if your eyes or shut) wine in right and music through headphones this treatment can be shered with a friend but not chocolate and if this fails to work after 24hrs go get at least one pair of new shoes and repeat self med Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 13, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 Thank you all for the replies, venting and letting it out has really helped. Going to take a nice nap and put this mess behind me before I go to work tonight. Just got to ride this one out and see what is at the other end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutsibe Posted June 13, 2012 Report Share Posted June 13, 2012 Hang in there, stress is no fun, and I can relate! Things will all work out, and usually work (eventually) for the better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydiamond Posted June 14, 2012 Report Share Posted June 14, 2012 I don't understand anything about legal matters, so I'll just give you a hug but I know it's sorta illegal to move property marks? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shaiasaur Posted June 14, 2012 Report Share Posted June 14, 2012 I am sorry about what is happening to you right now. I do not understand the property thing though. Are they moving the line and saying some of your property is now yours, or am I miss understanding this? I hope everything gets better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 16, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2012 Well they say it's always darkest before the storm....well I think we have hit the darkest it's ever been. The original sick leave denial looks like it's been dropped....but now they are working on a more serious claim against me. Well in their minds any way. I have been placed on Unpaid Admin Leave for the rest of the month it looks like while an 'investigation' into doing my job in the best interest of the patient and well within my scope of practice. They claim I operated outside of my scope of practice because they refuse to acknowledge my state issued certification. I don't know where this will go but my Union is working hard to get me reinstated and my lost wages. I suddenly realize the light at the end of the tunnel was just the train. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kara Posted June 16, 2012 Report Share Posted June 16, 2012 Wow, you have so much going on, my sincere sympathies, thank goodness you do have the Union on your side. Hang in there! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydiamond Posted June 16, 2012 Report Share Posted June 16, 2012 Well they say it's always darkest before the storm....well I think we have hit the darkest it's ever been. The original sick leave denial looks like it's been dropped....but now they are working on a more serious claim against me. Well in their minds any way. I have been placed on Unpaid Admin Leave for the rest of the month it looks like while an 'investigation' into doing my job in the best interest of the patient and well within my scope of practice. They claim I operated outside of my scope of practice because they refuse to acknowledge my state issued certification. I don't know where this will go but my Union is working hard to get me reinstated and my lost wages. I suddenly realize the light at the end of the tunnel was just the train. and the reason behind their claim is...? can't do so if they have no evidence.. If I were you I'd just lose my patience and start looking for a different company to work for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 16, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2012 and the reason behind their claim is...? can't do so if they have no evidence.. If I were you I'd just lose my patience and start looking for a different company to work for For some reason I'm in the bosses cross hairs....seems the boss was not too pleased to not have the original punishment stick due to lack of legality/evidence so now they are digging. They seem to forget they are not my primary agency and both of my Medical Directors have already accepted my new certification. They are just out to make my life hell right now, and if I could leave I probably would but seeing that this is the only company in town (and one of the largest in the US) I'd be done forever if I left now. I still have ambitions to move up the ladder, just might hang low for a bit before moving forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 16, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 16, 2012 In positive news? It seems since the Sheriff's Deputy talked to the neighbor he's been scarce and has not moved the property stakes again. Yes he was moving the stakes further onto my property, a whole 20' or more trying to claim it was his....so I guess that is at a stand still for the moment, which I will take whatever break I can get. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosemary Posted June 16, 2012 Report Share Posted June 16, 2012 That's a lot to cope with all at once Hope you are able to get the work situation sorted out - must be so frustrating. Bad, nasty neighbours are up there as the worst thing to cope with too, hopefully they will now lie low and you can get the boundary line sorted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 18, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 18, 2012 Coping has become an issue...I hope to have some answers today. The stress is killing me, I've gained 6lbs, had constant heartburn, pretty much constant migraines, and my favorite breakout of pimples on my face. Just want this to be over already!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 20, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 20, 2012 Well it's all over....I was fired from my job...since my husband has been unemployed for the past 2 years it looks pretty bleak. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted June 20, 2012 Report Share Posted June 20, 2012 I'm so sorry but don't lose hope I'm sure you will find somewhere else! --- I am here: http://tapatalk.com/map.php?i3qakx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 20, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 20, 2012 I hope so, I am done in my current field....the only place I could work was the company I was with. Sadly enough I'd either have to give up on my dreams or move to another area. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutsibe Posted June 20, 2012 Report Share Posted June 20, 2012 Awww, Lani - I'm so sorry to hear that things have gone so badly for you! I hope that you can find a new direction or some other way to make things work for yourself! Hugs, prayers, and best wishes!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosemary Posted June 20, 2012 Report Share Posted June 20, 2012 I am so very sorry Lani, you are in my thoughts and prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HuskyMom09 Posted June 25, 2012 Author Report Share Posted June 25, 2012 Thank you all, I took some time to collect myself. Actually 'ran away' with a friend to the dog show, needed to see my boy that has been out on the road for the week that my life was falling apart. I have talked to a number of my co-workers and friends as well as my Union rep and there are positive thoughts floating around. We discovered they wrongfully terminated me, so the fight is on, we are compiling evidence to make my case...fingers crossed I will get my job back. I love my job and even though it will be rough if I'm allowed to come back I will stick it out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sutsibe Posted June 25, 2012 Report Share Posted June 25, 2012 Best wishes, Lani - I hope that all goes well for you!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosemary Posted June 25, 2012 Report Share Posted June 25, 2012 I truly hope it is all sorted out for you soon Lani. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aronoiiel Posted June 27, 2012 Report Share Posted June 27, 2012 Best wishes and tons of luck for you to get back on that horse! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.