Removed #4 Posted July 6, 2012 Report Share Posted July 6, 2012 My brother... *facepalm* He is one of THE most intelligent people I have ever met. So brilliant... But he acts like a 5 year old. Not only has he never been able to hold a job for more than a month... He has never been able to support himself without begging for money from our Mother and Grandmother. He even has Food Stamps, and somehow manages to go through over $300 worth of food for only 2 people......... HOW THE HELL?!?! THEN! He freakin goes to our Grandmother, and begs her for some of HER Food Stamps!! He has a lot of issues with drugs and alcohol, but he doesnt hit the mark of addict. He just abuses them. But its still too much. He is 5 years older than me, yet Im the one with my shit together. I love my Brother. But I dont like him very freakin much. He is an ungrateful manipulative mooch with a side of mental disorder and anxiety, and for dessert we have the most lazy human being who simply WILL NOT help anyone... Let alone himself. He acts like the victim because our Father left us when I was only 8 or so... But heres the thing... Daddy didnt love me either, but obviously I got over it... I figured it out... I built myself stronger. Yes, I understand he was older, and he is a boy and they are supposed to have a super bond or whatever... But it has been over a decade. He has been to therapy (forced), and you dont even want to know all the other crap this family has had to go through because of my Brother. He has also had this girlfriend for a few years now. While on one hand, they can be great for each other because of her motherly instinct... They are HORRID for each other because of her temper and his anxiety/temper. They fight in public, in front of family and honestly whoever. Its astounding that neither of them have been hurt... Honestly. NOW Wanna know the icing on this crappy cake?!??! They live in a one bedroom duplex, with no yard, they have 3 birds, and they arent allowed to have pets. And guess... Freaking... What... They got themselves a husky. :@:@:@ WTF!??!??! SRSLY!?!? RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHH!!! Are you kidding me? Those two hardly take care of themselves, how on earth do they plan on taking care of a HUSKY in a one bedroom with no freakin yard?!?! Also... They got an agouti... Hmmm..... Jealousy is an interesting thing. Now... His girlfriend claims to know what to expect with Huskies, she had one growing up. Well... a few things... She was a KID, she didnt raise that dog... Her family/parents did. AND, that particular husky had PRIOR SLED DOG TRAINING...... *moarfacepalm* They plan on walking her every day.... Yeah... That will happen. And, even if it did happen... That wont be enough! Heres what I project happening. They wont walk her, and she will be absurdly hyper and crazy all the time. They will get annoyed with her. She will get worse, then she will become destructive from lack of exercise... They will get furious with her and either.... 1. Begin abusing her. OR 2. Give her away ASAP. Now... If they give her away, they will throw her at the next family that wants a pretty dog. They wont give a crap who knows the breed, they will just pawn her off. So this leaves me... I will most likely have to take this dog within the next 6 months Im guessing, then work on finding her a suitable home. Which will take up our time and money, but its better than letting some other random idiot own a Husky... The OTHER scenario is... Somehow this Husky happens to be a freakin anomaly and ends up being suuuper relaxed and is the perfect dog for them. Which is obviously highly unlikely. I will keep you guys posted on whatever I hear about the situation. I dont ever really talk to my brother, so I will have to hear it from my Mother of Grandmother. Thanks for being my verbal punching bag! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Austinville Posted July 6, 2012 Report Share Posted July 6, 2012 Well, all things aside - if nothing else good comes from this, the husky will at least have you to help find a proper home. Continue to be strong. We're behind you and are here for you anytime. *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #4 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 6, 2012 Well, all things aside - if nothing else good comes from this, the husky will at least have you to help find a proper home. Continue to be strong. We're behind you and are here for you anytime. *hugs* Thank you. That made my morning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elyse Posted July 6, 2012 Report Share Posted July 6, 2012 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #4 Posted July 6, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 6, 2012 Haha. That emote always makes me smile. Its just so perfect! Thank you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #4 Posted July 12, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 12, 2012 Update!! My brother caught his Girlfriend cheating on him... In their apt... They had been together for about 4 years. My first question was... What about the dog?? My Mom said that the dog is hers, and my brother will now have nothing to do with it. Surprisingly, I think this is best for the dog. Her alone is better than them together. I have slightly higher hopes for the dog now, but the only problem now is... I wont be able to help at all if things go wrong. Guess I will just have to forget. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted July 12, 2012 Report Share Posted July 12, 2012 oh dear. well as they say, she made her bed now she has to lie in it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #4 Posted July 12, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 12, 2012 oh dear. well as they say, she made her bed now she has to lie in it. Yeah... Im absolutely furious with her... My Brother, as messed up as he may be, has always been a wonderful Boyfriend. Always faithful in every relationship, and always great. Had very few relationships and was never even close to a "player". He is one of the last people who deserve something like that. I could throttle her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydiamond Posted July 13, 2012 Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 oh Carleigh so sorry for your brother. Unfortunately good people are always the ones that were teased by the devils =\ all best wishes for the agouti girl don't think you can't help at all tho she knows you're amazing with a husky why wouldn't she give you a call when she encountered "problems" with her husky? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted July 13, 2012 Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 oh Carleigh so sorry for your brother. Unfortunately good people are always the ones that were teased by the devils =\ all best wishes for the agouti girl don't think you can't help at all tho she knows you're amazing with a husky why wouldn't she give you a call when she encountered "problems" with her husky? if you had cheated on your boyfriend, would you then want to call his sister...lol i know i wouldnt. mind you if it was in the best interest of my dogs i maybe would, i think i might even take a call if it was the other way round. difficult one though x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paranormal Wolf Posted July 13, 2012 Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 Sounds like a true mess, sorry to hear about all the bad news. My thoughts are with you guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #4 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 oh Carleigh so sorry for your brother. Unfortunately good people are always the ones that were teased by the devils =\ all best wishes for the agouti girl don't think you can't help at all tho she knows you're amazing with a husky why wouldn't she give you a call when she encountered "problems" with her husky? Sadly... No. She isnt necessarily a very nice person. She has this weird jealousy thing going on with me, angry that I have a great relationship and a Husky and a house... The list goes on. I know that I will sadly never be in this dogs life. I never even got to meet her. Oh, and we found out she is Husky Malamute and Wolf.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydiamond Posted July 13, 2012 Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 oh my Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #4 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 Yeah... Makes me sad. But I have higher hopes for the cutie. Just keep your fingers crossed with me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICE & SHADOW Posted July 13, 2012 Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 Do you not have room for another Husky? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICE & SHADOW Posted July 13, 2012 Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 and your brother sounds like my sister haha...I've learned that you can only say so much to someone, before you just sit back and wait to say "I told you so" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #4 Posted July 13, 2012 Author Report Share Posted July 13, 2012 Do you not have room for another Husky? Technically I do have room, but we live with my Mother in Law... She didnt even want us to get our first one. Plus, if we were able to take her in... It would only be to find her a good home. We wouldnt be able to keep another Husky. Plus, we cant just steal her. It would have to be on the owners terms. And at this point, I have nothing to do with the poor girl. She is now with the Girlfriend, and I wont have any contact. and your brother sounds like my sister haha...I've learned that you can only say so much to someone, before you just sit back and wait to say "I told you so" Precisely... Its kind of absurd really. Everyone has tried to help my Brother SO much, and nothing we are doing is helping him. He just needs to hit rock bottom on his own, and rock bottom for him... Is a terrifying place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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