loops Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 ex him indoors last night announced that he wants to have Logan when i move out.. I am a greedy bag and want all three doofs..In my head i know it would make life a hell of a lot easier if i just had the girls, but i see boy dogs doofy face and the cuddle monster that he is and the thought of him not in my life just upsets me. Its not too bad for the time being but when he eventually moves to scotland i wont ever get to see him. boy dog and bobbins come as a pair cos they get on so well but he wont have two, only one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lebe03 Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Hope you can work something out that suits you and the dogs and maybe even your ex Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Povodny Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 I don't understand why he would want to split them. Surely it would be distressing for boy dog to be on his own after all being together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valkyries Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 oh no i feel for you, i know if we split i'd loose both loki an thor as there both daves but it would kill me to loose any, i so hope you can sort some thing out hun xxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loops Posted January 8, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 he may miss bobbins but the new gf in scotland has 3 dogs so he wont be totally alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Povodny Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 I really hope he changes his mind.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 oh linda im sorry. i reckon id get kids and dogs lol. alex works and couldnt have them, plus.both are mummys dogs lol x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 i hope it works out. hell would freeze over before my bf would get Luka. and that's really all there is to it. haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Hope u can sort it out :-( Sent from my ST18i using Forum Runner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devildust76 Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Oh hunny I really hope you can get things sorted. You can always borrow Kodiak Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherrie-Nanook-Indy Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Oh Linda I'm so sorry it's come to this. What an arse he is!! Really hope that something could get sorted, big hugs xx Sent from my iPhone using Forum Runner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loops Posted January 8, 2013 Author Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 i have to be a bit fair cos he knows that the bird is non negotiable lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jessiezara90 Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Awwww no! I'm not planning on breaking up with my oh... But u never know what the future holds. Meeko is ours ( but more mine), so he would have to come with me coz I'm the dog walker lol. But the other dogs are from his previous relationship so there more his, but then that would mean splitting them up!! I hope it never comes to this though..... Hope u can sort it out:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedJasper Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 I sure hope things work out. I would be a mess if I had to loose one of my 3 so I can almost understand what you are feeling. I hope he changes his mind for sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emma Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Not sure how he can say he's taking boy dog when he has no idea if the three other dogs will accept him? It could potentially be a disaster! And scotland's a long way to go to sort out a mess you haven't even created! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val (Zebedee) Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Aw Loops, what a quandry! Would boy dog get on with the other furries? Make ex-him-indoors understand he has 3 new dogs to support and Logan needs his pack :-( big hugs, I hope you get to work it out, x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elenamarie Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 That's a bummer, I'm sorry. Technically Sarah is my son's dog. His name is on her registration papers. In reality, though, she's mine and everyone knows it. My son will be 15 next month and he's planning to go into the military after his HS graduation. If that happens Sarah will be staying here since he can't have a dog in the barracks. If, however, he changes his mind and does something else he may want to take Sarah with him. I can't bear to think of her leaving. I was talking to my hubby about it a while back and he said that if my son took her, he'd get me another pup. Yeah, okay, but it won't be SARAH! I hope this works out for you, and especially for Logan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Povodny Posted January 8, 2013 Report Share Posted January 8, 2013 Aw Loops, what a quandry! Would boy dog get on with the other furries? Make ex-him-indoors understand he has 3 new dogs to support and Logan needs his pack :-( big hugs, I hope you get to work it out, x Im with Val, I don't understand stand the necessity to remove one dog from a happy pack when he is adopting three more dogs, if he was going to be alone I could sort of understand, but this smacks of pure selfishness. Sorry Loops, I know I've only met you briefly once an your ex not at all but what he's contemplating does seem to be unreasonable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted January 9, 2013 Report Share Posted January 9, 2013 What happens if he doesn't get on with the other 3? I hope you can sort something hun i couldn't bear loosing any of my boys and i know how much you love your pack Ps husband - all 3 dogs are registered in my name when we get divorced they are coming with me - any questions? no - good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rachel-Phoenix Posted January 9, 2013 Report Share Posted January 9, 2013 Ps husband - all 3 dogs are registered in my name when we get divorced they are coming with me - any questions? no - good Should that not be "if we get divorced" other than "when we get divorced" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted January 9, 2013 Report Share Posted January 9, 2013 Should that not be "if we get divorced" other than "when we get divorced" typo? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elenamarie Posted January 9, 2013 Report Share Posted January 9, 2013 typo? Blame it on the vodka. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted January 9, 2013 Report Share Posted January 9, 2013 Hope something gets sorted out I left my Logan with my ex and it was heartbraking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted January 9, 2013 Report Share Posted January 9, 2013 What happens if he doesn't get on with the other 3? I hope you can sort something hun i couldn't bear loosing any of my boys and i know how much you love your pack Ps husband - all 3 dogs are registered in my name when we get divorced they are coming with me - any questions? no - good see we talked last night. alex reckons id have kids and hed have the dogs umm NO ill have them all and he can have weekend visits lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pauline_d Posted January 9, 2013 Report Share Posted January 9, 2013 Before he thinks about him he should think about the dog, if he has been all this time with the other two it would be mean to separate him from them... and as many people said how does he know he will get on with the other three dogs? what about the papers, under what name it is? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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