Applebear Posted February 18, 2013 Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 I don't control his life, i give him advice on things but ultimately it's his decision because it's his life. and i expect the same. if he makes a decision to do something against my wishes than that's on him but i try to be respectful of his decisions. It has nothing to do with control...it has more to do with respecting boundaries. I was simply sharing my view along with the others. I really do hope you work it out and can help this husky, best of luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 18, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 I don't control his life, i give him advice on things but ultimately it's his decision because it's his life. and i expect the same. if he makes a decision to do something against my wishes than that's on him but i try to be respectful of his decisions. It has nothing to do with control...it has more to do with respecting boundaries. I was simply sharing my view along with the others. I really do hope you work it out and can help this husky, best of luck. I see what you're saying. When I first read your post I looked at it more of if he was just my roommate. However he isn't. He's my serious boyfriend. I'm talking to him tonight hopefully it will go in my favor haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Removed #2 Posted February 18, 2013 Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 I'm the last one that should be giving advice as we await our foster that we certainly according to the forum will fail to find a home for, cause she'll probably stay, unless I groom her properly to be Rynnie's sister...but if you know for sure you can just foster and find a home, it's a face I wouldn't be able to say no to! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 18, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 I'm the last one that should be giving advice as we await our foster that we certainly according to the forum will fail to find a home for, cause she'll probably stay, unless I groom her properly to be Rynnie's sister...but if you know for sure you can just foster and find a home, it's a face I wouldn't be able to say no to! I personally would like to keep him forever because im dying for my second husky but if me only fostering keeps him from being PTS I'm on board. He looks so sweet Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Applebear Posted February 18, 2013 Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 I see what you're saying. When I first read your post I looked at it more of if he was just my roommate. However he isn't. He's my serious boyfriend. I'm talking to him tonight hopefully it will go in my favor haha I do wish you loads of luck and hope he comes around, it's so sad how many dogs [not just huskies] are in shelters because of unethical breeders and owners. Makes me mad really, but that's a whole other topic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 18, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 18, 2013 I see what you're saying. When I first read your post I looked at it more of if he was just my roommate. However he isn't. He's my serious boyfriend. I'm talking to him tonight hopefully it will go in my favor haha I do wish you loads of luck and hope he comes around, it's so sad how many dogs [not just huskies] are in shelters because of unethical breeders and owners. Makes me mad really, but that's a whole other topic. Thanks ! I completely agree with our shelter epidemic. It's sad and could be prevented so easily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 19, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 He said yes!! Calling in the morning and if he's still there I will be going to pull him!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosemary Posted February 19, 2013 Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 That is great - well done girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Posted February 19, 2013 Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 I'm so please you got his buy in. It's so important because you may have tough patches ahead, and it's you've got to get through these together. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 19, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 He got Adopted this morning!! i invited the new owner to this forum, She sad she has no prior experience with the breed so maybe she will join! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted February 19, 2013 Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 He got Adopted this morning!! i invited the new owner to this forum, She sad she has no prior experience with the breed so maybe she will join! awww sorry you couldn't get this guy but nice work in pointing the new owner this way - hope they get some great advice Now he's said yes does that mean you're on the look out for another husky foster? lol x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 19, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 awww sorry you couldn't get this guy but nice work in pointing the new owner this way - hope they get some great advice Now he's said yes does that mean you're on the look out for another husky foster? lol x lol you hit the nail on the head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted February 19, 2013 Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 lol you hit the nail on the head i am liking your thinking :D I didn't tell Marc when we got Kaiser (our 2nd husky) he didn't know until his dad sent him a pic of the cheque i paid as a deposit lol he went mad but i got my own way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 19, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 i am liking your thinking :D I didn't tell Marc when we got Kaiser (our 2nd husky) he didn't know until his dad sent him a pic of the cheque i paid as a deposit lol he went mad but i got my own way i do think i am waiting till after i get back from husky camp though, i don't want to overwhelm josh when i'm gone hahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted February 19, 2013 Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 yeah good move - keep him on your good side Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Austinville Posted February 19, 2013 Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 I'm the last one that should be giving advice as we await our foster that we certainly according to the forum will fail to find a home for, cause she'll probably stay, unless I groom her properly to be Rynnie's sister...but if you know for sure you can just foster and find a home, it's a face I wouldn't be able to say no to! This is so our friendship! LMAO I'm thinking I should just purchase another crate now........... Either way, our license plates should read "FostRfailuR" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keeonah Posted February 19, 2013 Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 I'm glad everything worked out for you even if you didn't get the dog in the end. The prospects now are endless Gary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 19, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2013 I'm glad everything worked out for you even if you didn't get the dog in the end. The prospects now are endless Gary. i can look all over the country! haha i will get my foster ... and maybe a failure Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted February 20, 2013 Report Share Posted February 20, 2013 Awww yay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted February 20, 2013 Author Report Share Posted February 20, 2013 well i may have spoke to soon! charlotte SPCA has an overwhelming number of male huskies that need fosters so i just emailed! they have transports available but they have too many! fingers crossed!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted February 20, 2013 Report Share Posted February 20, 2013 It's a huge decision to make n I would want my partners full support on the matter , I'd sit down n talk to him promise him it's not an adoption it IS for fostering n explain that the poor dog would be pts otherwise n hope he would see my point ov view n agree with me to help out But I've just seen the other replies so it will teach me to actually read a full thread b4 commenting lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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