Stormy Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Im not really moaning and its probably a pointless post but i cant keep sitting here doing nothing. I tried for one last time today to sort things out with Rob and explained my point of view and listened to his unfortunately in the end he told me he does not want a relationship as we are arguing to much and yes its probably all me but i am done. So thats that he has said he will give me as much time as i need to find somewhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loops Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 sorry to hear that storm. Hope you get sorted. you deserve to be happy xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devildust76 Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 A shame but he has been a giant doof recently so you're better off without that in your life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Hugs, he was being an arse but least he's giving you time to find somewhere Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahjng Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 This might sound a little heartless but can't he leave instead, it would be easier Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 No he owns this house Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 I know I'll be happier in the long run doesn't make it any easier and I feel so alone at the moment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Not massively surprised. A lot of your recent posts have been very unhappy, regarding Robs behaviour. In the long run you'll be better off. Good luck with the house hunting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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stormchaser09 Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 all the best for a happier future. You certainly deserve better than he seems to be giving this last wee while. Things are on the up for you on the job front so onwards and upwards Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormchaser09 Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 sorry meant to add, life is too short to put up with things that make you unhappy, so I know you are sad after investing a lot in the relationship but everyone deserves to be treated with a bit of respect and that did seem to be lacking a bit lately. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Yeah you are right it hasn't been good for a little while and unfortunately I could not help him and also didn't deserve the treatment I have had off him lately. the hardest part for me now is going to be finding somewhere to live it is not easy finding a home with 2 dogs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keeonah Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Sorry to here this has happened but there is no point in being somewhere you don't want to be. Move on, but don't rush into any new relationships just because you feel alone. There is someone out there that will make you happy, it's just finding them. Everyone deserves to be happy. Gary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 I won't be rushing into anything for a while no. Yes you are right in what you are saying move on etc and I will do does not mean I have no feelings and will feel abs fine right now because I won't Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keeonah Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 I know that feelings will come into it. I have been very unhappy in my relationship for the last 5 years but after being together for almost 40 years and married for 37 of them, moving on now seems almost pointless so I just stay put and get on with it but only because physically making that move would probably break me. Trying to find somewhere to go with 6 dogs, nigh on impossible. You have to judge each move by the circumstances surrounding it and do what is best for you at the time. Gary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
huskylynz Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Aww it's for the best! He's been such a ar** to you lately and it's no good carrying on with someone who's making you so unhappy. U deserve so much better! Right thing for both of ya! Here if you need me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goingsolo Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Big hugs sweet x time to look forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loops Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 as you well know, i been there done that, in fact it is coming up to a year ago and i look back and think what was i doing. wasting a quarter of my life. Louise said to me the other night that i have got louder cos when i first appeared on here i was quiet and reserved ha haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. its just me going back to my normal self because i am happy again, i have bought a house with the doofs, i have you lot on here and people to mix with outside of work and a possible toy boy lover on the horizon :-) . you are in a good place by knowing that you will be better off without him in the long run. you have tried a time or two to make it work, best to give it up before you start to resent and hate him xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Yea I know just finding somewhere now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Sorry to hear this Storm, I hope you get everything sorted nice and quickly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jay Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Hopefully things will work out for you for the better. Even though he was being impossible, it's still hard to do Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sarah Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Hope you can find somewhere quickly hun x x Sent from my GT-I9300 using Tapatalk 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted July 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Thanks x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Val (Zebedee) Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 It's not easy where you are right now, but you know you gave it your all, you were just not meant to be. There will be someone & somewhere out there for you. Paws crossed you come up trumps on a property that you & the dogs can move in to and you can make a clean break and look after number one. Shout up if there's anything we can do, xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emma Posted July 28, 2013 Report Share Posted July 28, 2013 Big hugs Storm. Breaking up is never easy no matter how much you knew it was coming its still hard and incredibly painful. Stay strong, we're here if you need us. Xxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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