Stormy Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 When me and Rob split up last time he had joined a dating site. Match.com I found out and he said he would delete it and then told me he had... ive since found out today that he had not!!!! So lies lies lies! I know alot of you will say it doesnt matter now etc but its bothered me slightly! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 I don't blame u , the fact that he'd said he'd deleted it but hadn't whilst u two were still together would bother me too if it was me , hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Yeah its annoyed me quite a bit! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mobezilla Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 No offense but I would've been done with him had I found out something like that, I have serious trust issues so that would not fly in my book.. Hope everything goes okay xx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dunc Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Hope he finds his perfect match and she fleece him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 youre so better rid hun x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Yep i hope so to Dunc Karma does tend to come around!!! Yep i am much better off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydiamond Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 I don't want to sound like a know-it-all and tell you what to do but honestly after reading your posts about him I've always wanted to say you deserve so much better but now there's this. Gosh. You're very, very patient.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 I don't want to sound like a know-it-all and tell you what to do but honestly after reading your posts about him I've always wanted to say you deserve so much better but now there's this. Gosh. You're very, very patient.... Were not together anymore we split up on Sunday so i dont have to put up with it all anymore well i wont when i can finally move out (need to save etc) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goingsolo Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 I would be more than angry. I don't do angry often, tends to scare people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggles Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 You are definitely better off without him. Also as you have contributed quite a bit towards setting up the home I think that he should help you financial to get started elsewhere. Maybe get in touch with a Citizens Advice Bureau who may be able to help you understand your rights and entitlements. If he had acted honourably I wouldn't recommend it but seeing he has been a real shite to you over the last few weeks/months hit where it will hurt him most - in the pocket. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emma Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Ffs! Well there's a definite confirmation that you've done the right thing, if ever you needed one. What the heck does he even need a dating website for? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chula Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 I'd be really hurt. I'm sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Not right! Can see why your... upset/angry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny_Caity Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Good on you Storm! You deserve to be happy, and happy alone is better than miserable with someone I wouldn't have put up with that either, I'd have laced into him! I'm curious though, and feel free to tell me to p**s off for being nosey, but when you leave, will you be taking the pups? - Caity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mazz Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 Said this before, will say it again. MEN ARE PIGS! Well, some are. Some are just slime. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chula Posted August 2, 2013 Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 (edited) Sadly, this has been my experience. I wish it weren't that way. Or maybe women only choose the men who are pigs because we are gluttons for punishment?! I know how much it hurts to feel like everything you were living was just a big fat lie to your partner. So I'm really sorry Stormy, I understand both why you're bothered/upset and why it would be hurtful. Said this before, will say it again. MEN ARE PIGS! Well, some are. Some are just slime. Edited August 2, 2013 by Chula Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 2, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 2, 2013 You are definitely better off without him. Also as you have contributed quite a bit towards setting up the home I think that he should help you financial to get started elsewhere. Maybe get in touch with a Citizens Advice Bureau who may be able to help you understand your rights and entitlements. If he had acted honourably I wouldn't recommend it but seeing he has been a real shite to you over the last few weeks/months hit where it will hurt him most - in the pocket. Hmm is a good idea..... he has put me in such a bad situation moneywise as he had around 500 of my money last pay day. For someone who earns 45 grand per year and has to borrow money off me who only earns 13 grand per year is not good and he expect me to be moving out in a months time when hes left me with nothing! Good on you Storm! You deserve to be happy, and happy alone is better than miserable with someone I wouldn't have put up with that either, I'd have laced into him! I'm curious though, and feel free to tell me to p**s off for being nosey, but when you leave, will you be taking the pups? - Caity Silly question! Of course i will be taking the dogs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LuvMyKai Posted August 3, 2013 Report Share Posted August 3, 2013 What a pig! You're so much better off, gosh some just don't know a good thing when they've got it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winterchillz Posted August 5, 2013 Report Share Posted August 5, 2013 Said this before, will say it again. MEN ARE PIGS! Well, some are. Some are just slime. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valkyries Posted August 5, 2013 Report Share Posted August 5, 2013 you make sure u take every thing you bought and if you part bought get your half back off him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 5, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 5, 2013 you make sure u take every thing you bought and if you part bought get your half back off him I didn't buy the house with him. I cant really get any of my money back as it went on his fuel and bills rather than anything obvious Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleLuka Posted August 5, 2013 Report Share Posted August 5, 2013 girl we really are going through the same thing right now. lol we will get through this! and they will realize one day that we were the best things to happen to them! and by then we will care less! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 5, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 5, 2013 Exactly we are better off on our own i am really looking forward to living on my own LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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