Stormy Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Received this message this morning from rob:I'm not having you continuing to sleep on the sofa with the dogs Storm. There is a bedroom upstairs that you have. Stop it please. Fine okay, I've been trying to to to bed but the dogs start howling and then even when they stop they are doing it multiple times through the night as they are unsettled due to him shouting at them etc and they don't understand! So the only wag I've been able to get any sleep is to just come down and sleep with them.... All he does when they howl is come out his room and slam doors so I can't win I'll either have to let them howl all night or sleep on the kitchen floor instead!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 why cant you? whats his flaming problem? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 He wants to make my life as difficult as possible. It's fine I'll go to bed tonight I actually want to sleep in a bed not a sofa... But they will howl all night and if he says anything I'll have to say well you told me not to sleep on the sofa and I'll have to just deal with being tired all the time due to no sleep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stranger Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 not sure what to say to this, sounds to me like he still cares and is saying that the sofa isn't the best place, but then when you say that he gets stressed with the dogs, I don't blame you for sleeping downstairs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Cares? No don't read it like that as that is definitely not what he is doing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 hes just being awkward. well just do it lol. the dogs are upset because they can sense the atmosphere and tension. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Doesn't help he's shouting and hitting them either! He Wil have a go at me for them howling to hence why I can't win Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dunc Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 KNOB !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Storm Angel n Auroras Mum Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Doesn't help he's shouting and hitting them either! He Wil have a go at me for them howling to hence why I can't win hitting them? oh hell no. id be telling him to keep his damn hands off your dogs. since you care for them they belong to you. dont allow him to do that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 What can I do Louise?? I am at risk of him telling me to get out.. I keep them away from him as much as I possibly can Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Wtf urgh he needs a good kick in his wotsits!! Sounds like he's just trying to force u out tbh , makes u sleep upstairs , dogs howl meaning u get no sleep , he shouts at dogs knowing that will P u off thinkin it will make u just up n leave so u get some peace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goingsolo Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Take the dogs up with you. If he says anything show him the message stating you are to sleep in bedroom. He is trying to make life hard but he needs to griw up big timeband take some responsibility. Go to CAB and get advice, contact his boss and ask them to have a word if all else fails wait till he is in his room and tie the handle shut lol. The end us in sight, keep strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Lmao His room is disgusting plates of old food on the floor clothes everywhere horrible!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 He's obviously just a Twat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Where did the dogs sleep prior to the break up ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devildust76 Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 I'm not a violent person but Rob really makes me want to hurt him! How dare he hit those dogs! I'm soooooooo angry for you right now. He is a man child that needs a reality check! Utter spanner. Chin up poppet not long til you go Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormy Posted August 14, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Where did the dogs sleep prior to the break up ?? In their crates in the kitchen which i did carry on doing and all was fine until he started being nasty it completely unsettled them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Ah, I was just wondering why all of a sudden the dogs are making lots of noise at night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pantherfan Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 I am new here and don't know you but I say sleep in the bed and let the dogs sleep there with you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahjng Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 What a knobhead, sooner your out of there the better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydiamond Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 I am new here and don't know you but I say sleep in the bed and let the dogs sleep there with you but they're huskies and there are two of 'em... they won't leave any space for Storm sorry to hear about this Storm unfortunately can't help at all. When are you going to move to your new place? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danny_Caity Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Jesus Storm, I can't even begin to explain how mad your situation is making me. He's a grown man acting like a 10 year old, leaving messages and shouting instead of discussing a problem he has? What a tosspot! You're doing completely the right thing getting rid! Can't wait to hear good stories about the pups settling into their new home! - Caity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mazz Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Guess most of us have nothing to complain about. So sorry that you are having to deal with all of this Storm. Just stay focused, don't let Rob get you so unsettled that you loose your wits, and soon, you'll be out of this predicament and you can then, and only then, tell him to, "BUZZ OFF BOZO! AND WHILE YOU ARE AT IT, GO EAT A BOWL FULL!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowpups Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 Grrrr I want to come up and kick rob into next week stupid twat. Tell the twat face next time he lays a finger on those dogs I will be getting someone to come hit him see how he likes it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lebe03 Posted August 14, 2013 Report Share Posted August 14, 2013 If it were me I would either bring my bed downstairs or purchase a camp bed and sleep on that as he's asked you not to sleep on the sofa. He has no right to punish your dogs so I'd tell him if he so much as raises his voice to them you'll report him for animal abuse or you'll kick seven shades of the brown stuff out of him, whichever you prefer. Don't allow the immature little (insert expletive) to get you down and remember revenge is a dish best served cold. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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