Smokey Posted October 22, 2013 Report Share Posted October 22, 2013 I've been struggling lately. School isn't going so well. I often wonder if mine (and everyone else's) baseline is to be unhappy with a couple of bursts of happiness here and there or if happiness is supposed to be our baseline and sadness our occasional distraction...? Because my reality is mostly the first, I often wonder how others feel. So? What do YOU think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
winterchillz Posted October 22, 2013 Report Share Posted October 22, 2013 I usually don't feel either happy or sad/unhappy during the day. I'd say more like okayish. For me, being happy or sad/unhappy depends on how I want to feel; If I go over-analyzing a given situation, it usually makes me unhappy, but then I tell to myself "Hey, what's done is done, right? Past is gone, future is unsure, what do I have at the moment? Exactly, this very moment. What's the point of being unhappy over something that I cannot change anymore?" Advices on how to change your reality? Look out for the small things - good weather, cool song or anything. This is what usually makes me happy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BingBlaze n Skyla Posted October 22, 2013 Report Share Posted October 22, 2013 for us its mostly sadness with some happiness , my dad says 'if there was no such thing as bad luck, we wouldn't get any' but lately things have been turning around for us n are on the up so im hoping after 4 years of bad luck that things are turning around for us n we will soon be happy with occasional distractions of sadness Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alicia Doyle Posted October 22, 2013 Report Share Posted October 22, 2013 i think it depends on what youre going through at the time, at the moment im ok and mostly happy but it wasnt always like that, at one point i thought i was incapable of being happy, chin up, you never know what's around the corner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andy Posted October 22, 2013 Report Share Posted October 22, 2013 Mostly I'm OK just bumbling through life day by day. Neither happy nor Sad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mydiamond Posted October 22, 2013 Report Share Posted October 22, 2013 I tend to feel nothing at all I have issues though so sometimes when somebody says something that I don't like hearing, I'd "explode" and become very scared or upset all of a sudden. But I'm still cruising on. Sometimes I feel like life is not worth living, but things come and go and look I'm still here. It's a bumpy ride alright but there IS light at the end of the tunnel stay strong Amina xxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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