jennjennc Posted November 6, 2015 Report Share Posted November 6, 2015 My dad passed I July and my friend I call her that cause I thought she was my best friend but I go to this support group for it cause I lost both of my parents not at same time of course but part of are group is to give out letters to tell people what to except that I might be different for awhile she told me I needed to be put on Ned's or I was going to kill my self . I told her some of the stuff her husband is telling her is a lie so she tells him and he goes to my husband and tells him that I need to quit my drama now she won't Evan talk to me or reply back to my voice mail some friend she is Sorry bout spelling in the moment did not pay attention stil upsets me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mazz Posted November 8, 2015 Report Share Posted November 8, 2015 Sorry for your loss Jenn. Sometimes, people are not very understanding. Sure, they seem the kind of person you want for a friend, on the outside, but it's what is on the inside that really matters. I certainly am in no position to give advice, other than to say, sometimes you simply have to move on and leave those type of friends in your past. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jennjennc Posted November 8, 2015 Author Report Share Posted November 8, 2015 Thank you I have been thinking very long and hard bout doing that she has not really contacted me since then so I guess time to move on thank you so much just needed someone to say it out load I guess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emma Posted November 8, 2015 Report Share Posted November 8, 2015 So sorry for your loss. Some people just simply don't like to hear the truth and then it turns into a "shoot the messenger" type scenario. At the end of the day at least you can hold your head up and say you tried. You're still grieving and tbh you don't need the extra dramas right now, there's only so much you can cope with at once, right? Let them take a back seat right now and focus on yourself. If they're a true friend they will come round and support you in the end. If not then they are not the kind of friend worth worrying about. Take care. Xxxx Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stormchaser09 Posted November 8, 2015 Report Share Posted November 8, 2015 Sorry you are having such a hard time. I have had a similar experience with one of my friends- when I really needed her to be there for me when my niece was killed in an accident, I didn't hear from her for weeks. Looking back every time I have lost someone close she seems to back off (recurring theme going on in my family, where we seem to lose someone every October- for past 5 years). I think my friend just can't cope and doesn't know how to help or what to do. We are still friends but I don't feel as close any more. Sent from my SM-P550 using Tapatalk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goingsolo Posted November 10, 2015 Report Share Posted November 10, 2015 Sorry for your losses xxxx grief takes a lot of time, concentrate on you and dont worry about others xxx. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SamK Posted November 18, 2015 Report Share Posted November 18, 2015 Sorry for your loss. I guess it's true what they say: Truth hurts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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